Monday, December 27, 2010

perempuan itu istimewa

two weeks until the end of obstetrics & gynaecology posting


perempuan itu istimewa

6 weeks in obs & gynae opened my eyes a lot
even as a lady, i never thought women had the capability that i knew we actually do have now
in obs & gynae, we dealt with women from the very young up till the very old
yg paling magnificent sekali would be dealing with pregnant women

after all this time, kite cuma dgr people mention
penat ibu mengandung 9 bulan sepuluh hari
hormat mak, die jage kite dlm perut lame
die yang lahirkn kite
die yang besarkan kite
die yang jge kite malam2 up till the point xkn ade seekor nyamuk pun yang hinggap kat badan kite
but actually, do we really go deep into these sayings?

most of us actually did not experience watching the pain of women in labour
ya Allah..tuhan je yang tau
i may not experienced it yet
but watching mothers struggle with contractions pain, waiting for the cervical os to dilate up to 10 cm sent chills up my spine
kalau yang os fully dilate after 2-3 hours tu xpe jgk
tp bygkn yg kene tngu smpi 11-12 hours just to make sure the baby is safely delivered
dgn contractions 1 in 2 minutes

the first thing that came to my mind after observing the first delivery in my life was
"ya Allah, macam manela ibu bole tahan semua ni smpi 5 kali"

only after observed yg itu baru sedar mcm mane peritnye seorang perempuan tu nk bersalin
dgn episiotomy nye
pastu kne suture lg
blood loss yang slalunya not less than 250 mls

only women can withstand that

first time conduct delivery
i only tarik bahu je after midwife tarik kepala baby tu
ble baby tu da kuar, da cord clamp, kte angkat tunjuk kt mak die
time tu baby da nangis and obvious dpt tgk mak die senyum and as if hilang sume sakit yang die rase time tu
then ble baby tu da bersih, da wrap comel2, letak baby tu dlm warmer sebelah bed mak die
time tu pun obvious mak die akn tgk je baby tu
and baby tu pun kebil2 tgk mak die
kne jahit time tu pun xrase da kot
indahnya kuasa Tuhan
kte yang melihat ni pun rase happy tgk the bond yg formed just by looking into each others eyes

that was an amazing experience
6 weeks thought me a lot

in Al-Qur'an, ade satu surah dinamakan sempena wanita
- an-Nisa' -
in medical practice, ade satu major specialty just addressing women
- obstetrics and gynaecology -

perempuan memang istimewa
itu hakikatnya


2 weeks till the end of obstetrics & gynaecology posting

with love

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